Newsgroups: alt.sex.incest
Subject: INCEST: SHARED EXPERIENCES
From: 548@prostar.com (548)
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Date: 25 Jan 96 21:10:48 PDT
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The following are stories from those who have responded to my post
in the alt.sex newsgroups. A special thanks to thosewho have "so-far"
responded...
Even though Incest is probably considered Societies #1 Taboo, it is
likely one of our best kept secrets...
It is my belief that if the real facts were to be known, in proportion
to other sexual behaviors, it is more likely that an individual would
have had sexual relations with a brother or sister, than to have perhaps
engaged in homosexual activities or other shared experiences.
I am interested in hearing from individuals who have had sexual rel-
ations with a family member, and what direct and actual impact this
type of an relationship has had on you. I am not looking for details of
respective experiences, but just simply;
...with whom (Mother, Father, Sister, Brother, etc.),
...at what age,
...who ñwooedî who,
...how you feel about your experience(s) today...
You can be assured the confidentiality of any information provided will
not be compromised.
Without compromising the integrity of those who have supplied infor-
mation, the following are stories they have shared with me...
If you've had an experience you would like to share, please direct your
responses to: 548@ProStar.com
Looking forward to hearing from you.
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Hi... Yes I have. I've been with my mom, dad, brother, and both
of my sisters. Since I don't live with mom and dad anymore they are
pretty much out of the picture, but I live with one of my sisters and
our brother lives close by. We all spend a lot of time together if you
know what I mean. All us girls are bisexual because of this and we
ove it. I am the middle of 3 girls. My older sister started having sex
when she was 12. I started with her at 10. I was 12 before I did any-
thing with my brother or father. Same with the others. I guess 12
was the decided age. Anyway, the experiences we have all shared has
brought us all close together. No regrets here. We're all glad we did
it. I hope this helped your survey.
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What are you doing? Some kind of study? My brother and I have lived
together as a couple for over a year now. We're quite happy,
and in all likelihood will stay together on the long-term. I don't
see anything changing the way that things are now. We don't,
however, think of our relationship as "incest." That word has too
many negative connotations (rape, forced sex, submission, etc.)
We're in love, pure and simple.
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My experience would fit with your suspicions, for I had along
standing incestuous relationship with my older sister that served more to
bond an already healthy connection that has lasted all these years to now.
Some readers, looking for fantasy fulfillment perhaps, have registered
a modicum of disappointment that (so far) Billy and Jean "haven't done
it yet." But that slow-as-molasses mutual seduction was as it really
happened. The experience, based on openness and honesty, served us
well.
We came to know ourselves, our sensuous and sexual selves well in
our incest-uous relationship. We remained close, at first physically as
well as emotionally, and later, on different sides of the country, there
continues to exist a strong tie of warmth and trust. To this day I
fantasize about her.
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I am writing with reference to your posting on the Usenet newsgroup
alt.sex.incest regarding e-mail concerning the subject of incest. I am
also very interested in this subject matter. I have been saving a lot of
stories from alt.sex.stories that deal with this subject and also read-
ing most of the posts on other newsgroups. However, I have not really
had too many insights. Most of the stories or "incidents" that have
been related are banal and repetitive and there is not much thought
put into the psychological motivations of the characters.
It seems that there is a lot more attention and interest on the
subject of sex between fathers and daughters and between siblings
than between mothers and sons.
I am personally interested in the subject of mother-son incest because
have experienced several incidents of that type while I was growing up.
I did not have actual sexual intercourse with my mother though I had
often fantasized and masturbated while thinking about it. It turns me
on the most when I think about non-consensual situations when I am the
dominant party and anal and oral sex is involved. Mind control and
humiliation also figure heavily in my fantasies. I often wonder if
I am in the minority, if incidents and fantasies of this sort are few
and far between. I am otherwise psychologically well-adjusted- I
have had several girlfriends and I do not have any difficulty making
friends. Still, there are times when I wonder if am a sick,
twisted person.
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I have had sex with sis. She's 20 and I'm 22, and male. Both love
it. Have you seen the book, "Children and Sex". Finkelhor, in an article
in there, does produce data which does show more sibling sex than homo-
sexual sex! You stand correct. Please e-mail me back the results of
your studies...
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My wife and I would like to receive any stories you can forward to
us. We have been involved for quite a few years. We have three children.
All are involved and have been since they were in their teens. They are
now 20, 19 & 18. If you have any information on obtaining a family
video we sure would be grateful to you.
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My mom and dad both introduced me to sex at the tender age of 7.
I walked in on them in the act and rather than throw me out they in-
vited me into watch and learn. Eventually the "lessons" progressed
further to the point where I participated in their lovemaking. It was
wonderful! I felt very special, very loved and VERY grownup. I never
regretted it for a minute. We had and still have a very open caring
relationship. Unlike many children and most adolescents, I knew how
much they loved me and trusted me. I was never forced or coerced.
I believe that my incestual relations with mom and dad were the basis
for the exciting sex life I now have. I'm so happy they didn't let
"taboo" stand in the way of expressing their love for me physically.
Feel free to email me if you like.
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I had sex with a cousin who is 4 years younger. As a matter of
fact, one of her children is mine...
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My cousin and I have had sex on and off for the last ten years or so.
It is very casual and we both enjoy it. It is very consensual since we
were in our early twenty's when it started. We both see other people
and have been married before. She lives in the Midwest and I live on
the west coast so we don't see each other often enough to get bored
with it.
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My mother and I. A one time encounter when I was in my teens.
Neither of us have ever discussed it. The experience was exciting
but I've always felt a little weird about it.
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Hi, I read your note inquiring about those who have had incest. I
am a 22 yr old college student and I have been sexually active with
my twin sister since 14, we enjoy our relationship very much and
are planning to live together after we both graduate from college
this summer. Our dad died from cancer just a few weeks before we
graduated from high school and a little over a year later mom joined
us kids in our lovemaking and it has been wonderful making her happy.
I am going to college close to home and am homeon most weekends
and mom and I spend a lot of time together in bed. Incest is prevalent
in our family, I have an uncle and aunt (dad's sister) who have 18 kids,
and most of them have been or are involved in incest with siblings.
The older ones teaching the younger ones how to have fun. I would be
interested with how many replies you receive and how most feel
about their relationships.
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My sister, when I was 17 and she was 20.
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I was seduced at an early age by an aunt and never regretted what-
soever. It made me into a great lover of women
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I have had actual sexual experiences with a family member and
would like to discover how prevalent this type of behavior actually
is. To date neither I nor my sister, with whom I engaged in this
"relationship" have not discussed our experiences with anyone other
than ourselves.
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Nice post!
I have been sexually intimate with my father since I was 14 (now 19).
While I have never had any real head trips from it, I think it is
frequently difficult for my dad to deal with. He has repeatedly tried
to "end" it, but never for more then a couple of weeks. He also has
real hang-ups about having certain types of sex with me, even though
he knows I personallyenjoy them.
I would like to be able to talk with him more about his feelings, but
it is hard for him to talk to me about it. I think he feels that he is
"sick", or something, and I think that the fact that he can't actually
control his desires is also upsetting to him.
I have always told him that I don't think you can make black and
whitejudgments about it. This kind of a relationship is different for
different people, and for some people it can be very positive.
About my mother: I have one, but we have never been close, and she
and my father divorced about 4 to 3 years ago. She had no "involvement,î
but she was the "cause" of it. She was/is a complete alcholic who
was drunk by 10 am, and passed out by about 3 in the afternoon
everyday, and was really nothing but a vegatable in our home.
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I had sex with my sister for about 3 yrs. beginning when I was 15
and she was 13 years old. We are now in our mid-thirties living
independent but productive lives.
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My story is a lot like some of the stories you've already recieved.
My brother and I experimented sexually when we were younger.
This lasted over a two year period. We are much older now. I don't
have any regrets about the relationship we once had. Over time we
have our attitudes towards each other have changed. As a matter of
fact, I don't even like the guy anymore!
If you would like to share own experiences please forward email to:
548@prostar.com
Again, thanks for sharing your stories...