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Story title : Penis Psychology for Women
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Penis Psychology for Women
by Dr. Andy
***
This article will cover the little known and even less
admitted thoughts, urges and motivations of the human
male. Even though the descriptions are a bit
stereotypical, the underlying truth still prevails.
***
A Truth: Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars.
You've probably heard this statement connected to a
prominent self-help author and in discussions about
gender relationships.
The reason you have heard this statement is that it is
absolutely true and describes a human condition that
has been glossed over since the beginning of time.
Ninety-nine percent of women have no idea what goes
through a man's mind on a regular basis. Women think
they know, but if they could crawl inside the average
male's mind and read their thoughts un-hindered, they'd
be shocked beyond belief.
You've heard woman say, "He's such a pig." Usually
related by an ex-girlfriend or wife about their
relationship with an ex-boyfriend for ex-husband. What
has happened here is that she's actually gotten a
glimpse of the "private" man, the man that we all are,
but that most of us can conceal, or subdue.
A Truth: Every heterosexual male looks at a woman as a
sex object.
This truth applies to men from the priesthood all the
way down the social ladder to rapists and thieves.
There is not one heterosexual male on the face of the
earth, that when they see a woman that appeals to their
senses, doesn't imagine that woman as a sex partner.
When a male is gazing dreamily at a female while
sitting on a plane, train, or at a stoplight, he isn't
just looking into space. What he's doing is fantasizing
about pumping his seed into her while she's screaming
for him to "do it harder!"
Of course this condition is part of nature. The urge to
reproduce is a basic part of our human condition and
the normal male is programmed by nature to "need" to
reproduce. So when he sees a likely female his mind
automatically turns to thoughts of reproduction.
Women have been programmed by nature to be the nurturer
of life, to have maternal instincts if you will. They
enjoy sex, but they aren't programmed with the "need"
to reproduce like men are. When a woman gazes dreamily
at a man, she isn't usually thinking about him humping
away at her, she's gauging his physical appearance, as
to it's relation to what a child might look like if he
were the father.
She might be more interested in the man's stability and
ability to provide than how long his penis is or how
long he can last in bed.
Don't misunderstand me; any healthy young woman is
concerned about the ability of a lover to please her,
it's just that although that is a priority, it isn't
the only one. Where, for young man, the sex act is the
driving force.
A Truth: Even ugly women can be goddesses.
I don't mean to offend anyone by using the description
"ugly" as it's related to females, but lets be honest,
in our society as in all past societies, looks are
important in social settings. Forms of beauty have
changed through the ages, but one thing has remained
constant; there have always been the beautiful and the
ugly.
But what hasn't always been apparent is that physical
appearance isn't really the most important thing to
excite a man's libido. A plan woman can be considered
sexier than the most physically beautiful woman just by
having the right attitude toward sex.
Yes, that's entirely true. How a woman responds to a
man's sex drive is much more important that mere
physical attractiveness. A woman who understands "penis
psychology" is sought after as a rare prize, as
something special.
The problem is that ninety-nine percent of woman don't
understand men and their "need" and without that
understanding their relationship will be superficial
and based upon other factors such as physical
appearance, wealth, or popularity.
A Truth: Penis worship will get the willing woman
anything she wants.
This is the most important thing for any woman to
understand. Men think through their penis. Yes I know
that sounds like an old clich‚, and that any self-
respecting person would just dismiss that statement.
But if you really do dismiss this one fact, then you've
blown it completely.
As I stated at the beginning of this article, men from
priests to rapists envision women, in their mind's eye,
as sexual objects. There is nothing truer than this one
fact.
The fact that a priest fantasizes about a nubile young
female as a sex partner doesn't make him evil, it is
the natural predisposition of the human male to look at
women as sex partners. But in most cases the priest can
over ride his instincts and not act out on his
procreative urges.
The point I make here is that if women will accept this
one truth, that ALL men see women as sex objects, and
that this is a natural state of affairs, then they can
control men, and their own lives as well.
***
In our society today, women have an inferior position
to the man, both in the workplace and in society. If
anyone ever really gave it serious thought they would
come to the conclusion that male dominance is the
reason for this situation. Since the beginning of time
the man has been in control, the aggressor, the
dominant partner.
In today's society, muscle and aggression is less
gender specific than they have ever been before. In the
bedroom a woman can control her man completely just by
understanding what drives him, and how his mind works.
I'm not trying to imply that the bedroom is the woman's
domain and that it is the only way to get ahead in
life. All I'm saying is that if the young woman of
today understands, truly understands, what makes men
tick, she will have a great advantage in her
relationships with men in bed and in the workplace.
The following are some basic truths to know about
heterosexual males that should be understood:
1. As a rule, young males begin to think about sex at
around nine and first begin to masturbate to
ejaculation at around ten to eleven years old.
2. Just about every young male who masturbates is doing
it EVERY DAY and is fantasizing ALL THE TIME about any
and all females who happen to be within his
environment. This would include females as diverse as
Sunday school teachers, the next-door neighbor's
daughters and wife, even his mother and own sisters.
3. Even though most men don't act out on their
fantasies, young males of masturbating age will
fantasize about forcing other children, as well as
adult females. Whole scenarios will be built up; how to
place their "victim" is a position where they can take
advance of their sexuality without their knowing who is
doing it, and in a way that can't be stopped, or
punished later.
4. Most boys of masturbation age would faint from
fright if a female actually approached them for their
sexual favors.
5. As they grow up, most men are willing to do anything
for an accommodating woman who showed they were
attracted sexually to them.
***
As with anything, even masturbation becomes a "habit"
over time. Although the physical pleasure is still
intense, the mind becomes used to the pleasure and the
act itself becomes routine.
It is those formative years before routine sets in,
that shape a man's penis psychology. What kind of
fantasies gave the most satisfaction. What kinds of
external stimuli was experienced during his formative
years and what kinds of sexual contact he might have
had, that will shape his "need" in the future.
Many children will experience some kind of sexual
contact before becoming fully sexually aware. This is
all part of the growing-up process, most children are
curious and they'll be curious about things sexual as
well.
My most vivid memory of pre-masturbatory sexual contact
was when a couple for buddies of mine in the fourth
grade talked a pretty little blonde girl (I've
forgotten her name) into letting them finger her behind
the curtains of the class room at school.
It amazed me at the time that any girl would agree to
something like that, and to do it in a classroom where
other people were, was even more amazing to me.
That was the first time I saw a girls vagina and the
memory was burned into my memory and became the "ideal"
for all future vaginas. That one episode "colored" my
sexuality for the rest of my life. It showed me my
first female sexual organ and at the same time it made
me realize that females would let you do thing to them
if you asked the right one the right question.
As I grew up I had other sexual encounters with both
boys and girls. At that age I suppose curiosity is a
powerful thing, and the pleasure of sexual contact
without the realization of the consequences is both an
exhilarating and dangerous time in all children's
lives.
These episodes have nothing to do with parental
upbringing either. My experiences took place because of
the children I knew from school. My parents tried very
hard to instill in me the right things, but when you
are a child and other children do and show you things
that are exciting, you're not thinking about what is
morally right and wrong, because as a child you don't
have the guilt, that you will later begin to understand
as an adult.
Looking back I realize that I was more sexually active
than many children, and the reason for this was the
school friends that I had. I realized that I was more
sexual than other boys when the boy next door and I
began to "feel" each other up out in his back yard
after school.
They had a big old refrigerator box with a couple of
holes in it that was sort of a playhouse/fort. I don't
remember how it started or who made the first move, but
I do remember that we ended up out there in his
backyard together.
One of us would stick our head out of the hole in the
top of the big box and keep an eye open for anyone
approaching while the other would unbuckle and unzip
the lookout and fondle his penis and balls.
Keep in mind that this was before either of use had
began to masturbate, we didn't know the full extend of
the sex act, all we knew was that it felt good to have
someone else touch us and make us hard.
The realization came to me that he and I were different
when one day we invited to other buddies from school
into that backyard and somehow talked them into baring
their penises. We had all decided that we'd stand in a
circle and touch "dick heads", you know, one for all
and all for one.
We'll you can imagine my surprise when my buddy and I
whipped ours out and then looked at our new friends.
Both my buddy and I had fully hard erections and our
two friends were holding small, limp little penises out
on display.
At that moment I realized that they weren't turned on
at all. That they were just doing this because we'd
asked them to and they couldn't see any reason no to do
it. That experience taught me an important lesson;
don't assume that everyone thinks the same as you. They
have been "colored" by their experiences just like you
have by yours.
Eventually my buddy and I stopped our sexual contact.
Not that either of us had a girlfriend, but we just
lost interest in each other and then he moved away and
the whole incident became one more experience from the
past.
The whole point of the above little story was to
illustrate that what is normal to one person isn't
necessarily to another, but that all sexual contact
shapes ones outlook for the future.
I would wager that you have a few sexual contact
stories from your childhood, even if it is nothing more
than walking in on your mom and dad making love or
opening the door to your brother's room and catching
him masturbating on his bed. All of these things will
"color" your future sexual outlook as well as your
fantasies and turn-ons.
A Truth: To a male, his penis is his most prized
position.
No matter what a man says, his penis defines him. If
it's short and crooked he'll be hung up about it. If he
can't last more than a few seconds or if he has a hard
time staying erect, he'll be very concerned about it to
the exclusion of all else.
In the U.S. more that 7 billion dollars a year is spent
on MALE sexual problems of one sort or another, whether
it be mental or physical.
That's a lot of greenbacks, just concentrated on one
part of the male body. But the penis is such a defining
organ, one that hangs out in the open and cannot tell a
lie.
A woman can if necessary, lie on her back and scream in
passion and fool a man into thinking she is enjoying
herself, but a man has to "prove" his excitement by
sporting a stiff penis. And since the male libido is a
sensitive and delicate thing, it can become a problem
even for the fully sexual male. The more stressful
situations that he places himself in, the more chance
that he will experience performance problems.
My research shows that in monogamous relationships
where a couple has had no other sex partners, the
incident of erectile failure is less than 1%, while for
those males who have had 10 or more sexual encounters
erectile failure has occurred at least once, or 100% of
subjects admitted to some sort of performance problem
under certain circumstances.
A woman who knows how important her male partner's
penis is to him will be way ahead of the game. And a
woman who will take the time to worship his penis, will
be the sexiest woman in the world to him.
A Truth: Penis Worship makes every woman a goddess.
If women would keep one sexual thought in their minds
when approaching her lover in bed, she will always have
the upper hand and will be his own personal goddess.
As I mentioned at the beginning of this article, any
woman, even a "plain-jane" can be a goddess in her
man's eyes, all it takes is understanding "penis
psychology" and using that knowledge on her lover.
A man knows when his lover thinks he's sexy. He can
tell by the attention she gives his penis. Whether
you're trying to rekindle your sex life with a long
time lover or just starting out in a relationship, I
guarantee you grand success if you treat his penis like
a god.
It's not that hard to treat a man's penis like a god.
When fully erect it resembles the fertility phallus,
which has been a sign of godliness since the dawn of
time. It is smooth and hard all at once and if properly
maintained, it feels wonderful wrapped within the
fingers of your hand, or between your lips, or sunk
deeply between the folds of your vagina.
The penis is a mighty sign of your man's lust and that
lust is yours for the taking over and over again if
you're willing to praise the symbol of that lust in
word and deed.
The simplest way to show you care is to seek out his
penis when he's otherwise occupied. Even though men
think about sex all the time, sometimes those thoughts
are submerged beneath day-to-day tasks. But the sexiest
thing he'll ever experience is the moment when his
lover walks up to him while he's preoccupied and she
slips her hands in his pocket and massages his balls.
Don't you think he will remember the event for the rest
of his life, when, while he's talking to someone from
work on the phone you kneel down in front of him and
loosen his belt and open his fly and give him a silent
blowjob while he has to continue his conversation. Take
my word as a male, that performing an act like that
becomes a defining moment in his life, something he'll
never forget.
You didn't do anything you wouldn't have done later
that night in bed, but it was the timing of the event,
and the playfulness, the "penis worship" that he will
never forget.
There is no reason to ever have to do anything outside
the home or that might get either of you in trouble,
but if you want to make one of those defining moments a
little playfulness in the dark at a movie or concert
will take his attention immediately.
Even something as simple as laying in bed and caressing
his penis, and talking to it as if it had a life of its
own. Let him see you adoring his penis and you have won
him over.
Continue penis worship from time to time and you'll
have a satisfied lover, one who is less likely to have
roving eyes. As an example, my wife always gives me
great sex and a blowjob the night before I go out of
town to attend an event related to my work.
We've never actually talked about it, but I have always
known why she does that, and I look forward to it. I
know that she is putting her "mark" on me, sending me
off "satisfied" so if some other woman eyes me while
I'm on the road, I'll be less likely to be tempted.
It's wonderful to know that she values me enough to go
out of her way to leave me sated prior to my trips.
It's something that keeps the cockles of my heart warm
while I'm out there negotiating the cold cruel world.
***
I could go into techniques, and how-toos, but if you
can't figure out what to do with your man's penis on
your own, then all the instruction in the world won't
help.
The only real advice I can give you is that you should
take the time to really get to know your man's sexual
organ. It will be time well spent. And if you will take
enough time at least once a week from now until hell
freezes over to adore his penis, to actually worship it
during sex play, then you will truly be his goddess and
he will worship you in return.
One last note: Penis worship still works even after
menopause, even if sexual intercourse becomes
impossible due to physical related female problems
which so often happens after the change in life.
Just because you can have intercourse any longer
doesn't mean that he's stopped wanting it. A little
"penis Worship" can go a long way in satisfying your
man's sex drive under conditions like this. If he's
still with you it means he wants to be. If you want him
to stay faithful, then worship his penis once a week.
***
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