Child Brides of India
By C. Stanton Leman
Chapter 87: Miko Visits (MFFfg,
rom, no sex)
When Miko left, the three of us looked at
each other and Priya smiled then quipped, “Well, that went very well, don’t you think?”
“Very well indeed!” Monaavi chimed in.
“You shameless hussies,” I retorted, “a
couple of matchmaking hussies!”
Priya feigned a slave’s overindulgent
homage with, “Oh, Master, we only live to see to your every desire and
happiness.”
“When did I say I wanted another wife?” I
asked blindly.
“It’s our tireless duty oh, Master,”
Monaavi bowed following Priya’s lead, “to anticipate your every need and whim.”
“All right, get serious now,” I said trying
to direct the conversation, “What do you think?”
“I think,” Priya answered after a giggle,
“that she’s sincere. Her actions verify her statement in that when she found
out I was delivering she requested to be assigned to me. I told Monaavi that I
fully expected to hear from her. Basically because of her actions with Leeya:
she just seemed too understanding.
When she found out Leeya’s age and she didn’t flinch, I knew that my suspicions
were correct and that she was very interested in our family dynamic.”
Monaavi pointed out, “Sean, she’s opened
herself up to lose her license and be fired for having initiating a desire for
personal contact with a patient. It took all the courage she had to say what
she just said.”
“Yeah,” I agreed, “but she also has the
goods on me and could report me.”
“You’re not stupid, Sean,” Priya said.
“She’d never do that. She’d blame herself for everything and go to prison
herself before breaking your confidence. She somehow felt safe in coming to me
and it took a lot of guts to admit to us she’s attracted to our husband.”
“I just can’t grasp her thinking though,” I
pondered out loud. “I mean even if she knew of our familial arrangement, what
would possess her to make the overture?”
“Validation,” Monaavi answered. “Look,
Sean, I’ve never been hurt like she or many of my college friends were but I’ve
helped deal with the effects. You’ve heard the expression ‘Once bitten twice
shy’? She’s had an experience that’s been extremely traumatic for her and she
doesn’t trust herself enough to trust again and let someone in. A guy may seem to
be too good to be true and as soon as he gets in her pants, his real colors
come out. All girls who’ve been burned, look around and they get the feeling
that all the good men are taken. Her appraisal of you is validated by our
interactions and how we express ourselves unconsciously. She’s also aware that
you’re not a one-woman man and we accept that.”
Taking a drink of water Monaavi continued,
“She thinks that since we are accepting of being in a multiple partner
relationship that she might have a chance to be a part of that. I think she’s really
thought this out and sees this as a complete package for her: a loving spouse
and a needed support system with us. There’s also the fact that your actions
would be tempered by the fact that you’d be watched by us girls and any
assessment she’d make is verified or denied by using your wives as a sounding
board. I think she’s made a compromise within herself thinking she’s willing to
give up on an exclusive one-on-one relationship for one where she’s still loved
and supported, at least that’s how I see it.”
“My gosh,” I replied shaking my head, “are
we that obvious?”
Priya shuffled on the bed and answered,
“Love needs to be expressed and we express it. We’re always going to run the
risk of someone seeing that.”
“Boy!” I chuckled. “Are Mom and Dad gonna
be shocked with this one!”
Priya giggled and remarked, “No more
shocked than listening to you poke Leeya.”
“Geez,” I resigned, “You guys never quit!”
Just then, Dr. Simpson walked in with a
warm smile and greeting. He walked over to the bed and examined Priya saying
everything looked fine and that after Malina had been in the hospital
twenty-four hours, she’d be given her hearing test. If everything checked out,
Priya and Malina could come home this afternoon.
He said he had something he wanted to discuss
and asked to be seated. Offering him a seat, he sat next to me and coughed to
collect his thoughts. He looked at Monaavi and me and turned to Priya to speak.
I asked him if he wanted us to leave so he could talk privately with Priya but
he said we could stay.
He began by saying, “Priya, I’d like to
talk to you about something that concerns your family. Now, if I only get
answers from you, there’s a doctor/patient privilege and I can’t reveal what
you tell me. If you speak, Sean, it’s not privileged information, do we
understand each other?”
“What’s this about?” Priya asked, worried.
“It’s about your lifestyle,” Dr Simpson
replied. “Understand that I’m a doctor: your doctor and Monaavi’s doctor and my
only concern is for your health. It’s not my position to make judgments on how
you live your life so no matter how you answer, you’ll get the same level of
care from me, understand?”
“I understand,” Priya said pensively, “but
what does my care have to do with my lifestyle?”
“Let me qualify something first,” he
answered, “then I’ll answer your question with my own observations. I’ve been
trained to observe my patients very well. In order to ensure that my patient is
supported throughout this difficult time and has as few stresses as possible,
her mental wellbeing and relationship with her spouse are integral to her care.
A loved and supported wife makes for a normal, healthy pregnancy and delivery.”
He paused for a moment and Priya urged him,
“Go on.”
“Now remember,” Dr. Simpson re-iterated, “whatever
you tell me is privileged: even in a court of law it won’t be revealed but what
you answer will determine what I say next. Understand?”
“I understand,” Priya affirmed. “What’s
your question?”
“Mind you,” he revealed, “my only concern
in asking the question is for medical reasons. It is my observation having had
both you and Monaavi as patients and conducted both of your deliveries is that
you, Monaavi and the preteen girl present at both of these deliveries are all
in an intimate, polygamorous type of relationship with Sean. Is this true?”
Monaavi gasped and Priya silently answered
by the shocked look on her face. She turned to me for a sign to verbally answer
or not. I figured that the information was secret and he must have had a valid
reason to ask so I nodded for her to answer.
Priya looked at him with a stoic look and
replied, “You’re a very observant man.”
“I know I’m observant, Priya,” he
countered, “but you didn’t answer my question.”
“Yes,” Priya confirmed, “we are. What’s
this got to do with my treatment?”
“I’ll tell you why,” he answered. “As you
know, when you first came to see me, I took a medical history from you. You
lied to me about when you started having sex: That could have caused complications. I’m an experienced
gynecologist and know a woman’s anatomy with precision and I knew you’d been
having sex for at least four or five years which would have put you about
eleven. It makes no difference to me nor is it any of my business when or why
you chose to start having intimate relations, but I assure you my bringing this
issue up is for medical reasons only.”
“And what are they?” Priya asked.
“As your doctor and Monaavi’s,” he
answered, “I know your histories but what of the young girl? If she’s sexually
active, she needs regular gynecological exams and care. Would you go to another
doctor and run the risk of keeping him in the dark when she needs treatment? Lying
to your doctor and withholding information can be fatal.
“I can better care for all of you, knowing
what your family history is much better. I can care for all of you and you can
have the confidence that your life is secret with me because it’s not an issue
with me. As long as she never reveals openly to me that she’s engaging in sex
with an adult until she’s eighteen, I can overlook the fact that I tacitly know
— as long as she’s not being abused. I’m offering you care for all the women in
your family with discretion only because I’m quite sure I understand that this
is a very loving and supportive relationship. If I had a gut feeling that that
young girl was being abused, your husband would be sitting in jail right now. I
have as much, if not more to lose by offering my services in this way.”
“Then why offer?” Priya asked.
“I’ve been around long enough to know and have
treated hundreds of patients,” Dr. Simpson revealed, “that I understand there
are many ways a loving relationship can express itself. With all my patients, my primary concern is
their physical and mental health. I don’t judge people: I just treat them.
Regardless of how they choose to live their lives, they’re entitled to the best
medical care I can give them. And I will admit that I would like to examine the
young girl and make sure for myself she’s in a loving, stable environment. This
will be borne out over time as I see her as her doctor. Well, that’s what this
discussion has been all about, any questions?”
Knowing her information was privileged
also, Monaavi cut in with, “Yeah, just one: is it that obvious?”
Dr. Simpson chuckled and replied, “That
young girl is so in love, a blind man could sense it!”
We had to chuckle with him as he rose to
leave. He patted Priya’s leg and said, “Everything’s fine, you and the baby can
go home today after her hearing test, okay?”
“Thank you, Dr. Simpson,” Priya replied.
“The nurse will be in with your discharge
instructions. I want to see you in six weeks and make an appointment for the
younger girl: what’s her name?”
“Leeya,” She answered.
“Fine. Make an appointment for Leeya at the
same time and I’ll see you both. Got to go, see you later and good luck with
the little one. Bye now,” he said as he turned to leave.
“Bye, and thank you again,” Priya
responded.
A few minutes later the nurse came in and
we filled out the birth certificate and social security card information and
purchased the photos. She gave Priya her discharge instructions and left. An
hour later, our pediatrician came in and gave Malina her physical and said she
was ready to go home.
Priya’s lunch came but knowing we were
going home soon, she didn’t eat. The baby woke to be fed and Monaavi summoned
the nurse for the pre-pumped colostrum Priya had pumped. After warming it, the
nurse returned and Priya bottle fed Malina her gift then handed her over to
Monaavi for feeding. Priya pumped as Monaavi nursed. A nurse came in and said
that after her feeding, they’d take Malina to the nursery for her hearing test,
and then she could go home.
Malina returned about one-thirty from the
nursery and I changed and dressed her to go home. While waiting for the nurse
to accompany us to the car, I went and had the valet bring the car, giving him
a fifty.
A few minutes later, they wheeled Priya out
the door in a wheelchair as Monaavi pushed the bassinet. The nurse checked our
ID bands and said we could take the baby home. I helped Priya into the car then
buckled Malina into the car seat with the nurse looking on. When I’d finished,
the nurse checked everything and with a pleasant goodbye, Monaavi and I got in
the car and we headed for home.
We arrived home about two forty-five to
awaiting hugs, kisses and coos for mother and child. Monaavi took Priya and
Malina upstairs to rest as we sat at the table and talked. Monaavi returned
about fifteen minutes later and joined us.
When Monaavi sat down, the grilling began
when Mom asked, “All right you two, what’s going on?”
I looked over at Leeya and she had a guilty
face as she shrugged her shoulders. I sighed as I looked at Monaavi then at Leeya
and replied, “What specifically do you mean?”
“Don’t play games with me, Sean,” Mom warned.
“The little snot spilled the beans.”
“I’m sorry,” Leeya whined, “I was afraid of
losing my chance to be the next to have a baby.”
“Well?” Mom asked waiting.
“Mom…” Monaavi said before being cut off.
“Shut up, Monaavi,” Mom ordered, “I asked
Sean a question.”
I then went into the entire detailed
explanation of what Priya said to me on the phone last night and our subsequent
meeting with Miko this morning. I also told her about our discussion with Dr.
Simpson.
“God!” Mom said sharply. “You guys are full
of surprises. When’s this shit gonna end: when you’ve got one for every day of
the week? At least you’re getting them old enough to legally play.”
“Mom,” Monaavi put in, “it’s not like that.
Miko, through astute observation, deduced our family dynamic. She sees our
unique familial arrangement as a way to find her own happiness and she’s only
hopeful, not expecting a relationship with us. She’s like us, Mom, she’ll fit
in and she’s a wonderful person who’s reaching out to be loved.”
“Whose idea was this anyway?” Mom asked.
“Priya’s and mine,” Monaavi admitted.
“And she agreed to wait until Leeya had her
first before having a child?” Mom asked her.
“Yes,” Monaavi nodded, “with open arms.”
“Well,” Mom said, “your father and I aren’t
very happy about this but we’ll just wait and see what she’s like. You guys are
the ones that have to live with her so there’s really nothing more we can say.
You okay with this, Snot?”
“For now,” Leeya answered. “I want to hear her
say she’ll respect my rights first.”
“When’s she coming?” Mom asked me.
“After Priya and the baby are settled in,”
I replied. “I told her I’d call her.”
Shaking her head Mom commented, “Just
think: another country heard from.
She’s Japanese isn’t she?”
“Yes,” I confirmed, “born in Osaka but
she’s a U.S. citizen now.”
“From what I remember,” Mom recollected,
“She’s a very pretty woman: still looks like an older teen.”
“She’s real
pretty,” Leeya nodded, “and nice too.”
“I guess we’ll have to wait and see,” Mom
replied, “won’t we?”
Everyone just nodded in agreement.
The next week or so went pretty well with
Malina. Her nightly feedings were ranging from about midnight to five am after
two weeks. Her skin color was slowly darkening and she now had a medium
mulatto-type complexion. Her huge black eyes were the focal point of her
beautiful face and like all babies, she relished in being cuddled and held.
Priya now had enough confidence that she
nursed Malina directly from the breast even though she only produced about an
ounce total per feeding. Monaavi was selfless and let Leeya nurse what she
could give and as a result, Monaavi suffered from engorged painful breasts many
a night. She would pump what she could but sometimes it wasn’t enough. She’d
pump, bag, label and freeze what wasn’t used for future use. She felt it was a
small price to pay for letting her sisters experience the joy of nursing a
child.
I called Miko about one pm on Tuesday the
following week and woke her up. After she was awake enough to realize who had
called, she perked up and said she was happy to finally hear from me. Miko said
she had a delivery that went on for hours and just got to bed about an hour
ago. I asked her when her next days off were and she replied that she had
worked ten days straight and had a four day respite starting on Thursday. I
asked her when she’d like to come over and she replied that since she’d get off
work on Wednesday at midnight she’d like to visit on Thursday morning if it
wasn’t a problem.
Miko wasn’t expecting it but I asked her if
she’d like to spend a couple of days with us or simply do day trips. She seemed
to blush over the phone and meekly requested to stay for her entire long
weekend and I agreed. We arranged for her to come by around eleven am and I
gave her my address. She said that she’d get directions from the Internet
because she didn’t understand some of the directions I gave her. I apologized
for waking her and told her to go back to sleep and get her rest and she
thanked me for thinking of her. We disconnected with polite goodbyes.
We decided to have her bunk with Leeya.
Leeya wanted Miko to stay with her so Attiya moved in for the four days with
her mother.
The next two days were nervous ones for all
of us. It was kind of funny because all of us sat around the table trying to
learn some basic Japanese phrases. Monaavi was like a busy bee conducting
class, pumping, helping with the baby, nursing and attending to Priya.
Priya’s recovery was painful and slow: not
like Monaavi’s who seemed to have been bred to bear children without too much
difficulty. Her episiotomy was healing slowly and the eighteen hours of labor
had really taken its toll on her. She took it with pride and kept her spirits
up knowing she was now a mother and happier for it. She had a good friend from school
keep her abreast of assignments and lectures so she wouldn’t fall behind and
turn in her work for her.
The twins were well behaved (a big
surprise) during this period after Malina came home and were very affectionate
and gentle as they handled their little sister. They were now doing advanced
first grade work at five and a half.
Tina was taking after Leeya and seemed to
have a knack for kids, did her share to help out and she was now a full year
ahead in her studies. Attiya chugged along academically and was on grade and
doing well. Although Attiya was fairly quiet by nature, she was effectively very
communicative when she had something to say and she said it plainly. Her skill
on the piano was simply incredible!
Leeya, the little nursing mother, was now
two and a half grades advanced and at that rate, would graduate high school
when she was fifteen. She still tutored, nursed and helped care for the twins
like an adult.
Mom, ever in control, ran the household,
coordinated everyone’s tasks and assigned new ones. Dad just spent his time
hanging out with Adib, fishing at the pond, puttering around the garage or
spoiling his grandbabies and was often seen in the family room asleep with
Malina asleep on his chest. He really treasured that child!
Malina was getting darker by the day and
was now becoming a beautiful creamy light chocolate brown. She’d smile and coo
just about every time you spoke to her and was a very happy and spoiled little
princess (thanks to Poppy).
Me, I was just the toe sucking letch that
went to work to pay the bills. Seriously though, I worked hard and we were
slowly coming out of our financial slump and making good profits again. The
more I did this job the more I admired and appreciated my Dad and all the years
of hard work he’d put into this company.
Priya had given up her room to Adib and
Salima while they were here and was doubled up with Monaavi and the baby.
Salima spent her time with Priya when Monaavi held classes. When not with
Priya, Salima spent a lot of time with Mom talking about life, family and the
future. Adib: he and Dad were like two old fogey’s patting each other on the
backs for their having sired such successful and fruitful children.
Adib and Salima were a little apprehensive
about Miko but kept an open mind simply because they’d come to trust Priya’s,
Monaavi’s and my instincts with regards to our family. They were more concerned
about her non-Muslim faith and her Japanese culture more than anything else.
Mom teased saying it was a good thing to gain some religious parity among the
clan.
Thursday morning came and everyone was in a
buzz waiting for our oriental guest to arrive. Just for the hell of it, at ten-thirty
I looked at the security monitor and brought up the camera that covers the
entry gate. I saw a car parked just inside the drive and noticed by the emblem
on the hood that it was an Acura. I told everyone that I thought she was at the
gate and we waited for the intercom to buzz.
We waited.
We waited some more and I checked the
camera: the car was still there.
At precisely eleven o’ clock, the buzzer
sounded. I answered, “Hello?”
The voice on the other end was Miko and she
replied, “Excuse me I’m here to see Mr. Sean Michaels please.”
I buzzed the gate and watched on the
monitor as it began to open and said over the speaker, “Come on in, Miko. Just
follow the drive up to the house. I’ll meet you outside.”
“My gosh,” Mom observed. “She’s so polite
and formal.”
“She’s really frightened, Mom,” Priya
remarked. “Everyone, let’s try and make this as easy as possible for her, okay?”
“Oh hell, Priya,” Mom retorted, “no one can
be as friendly as this bunch, don’t worry about it, she’ll be fine: just wait
and see!”
I went outside just as Miko’s silver Acura
Legend pulled up and stopped. She removed her sunglasses, opened the door and
slowly exited the car. Every time we’d seen her, she wore baggy scrubs at the
hospital. She now wore a pair of tight jeans and a flowered halter-top. As she
exited the car, her long straight black hair blew across her face and she
smiled demurely as she took a finger and pulled it from her face.
Miko stood about five feet tall and weighed
roughly one hundred and five pounds or so. She had a very fair complexion for
an Asian that was flawless, her skin being almost white. She had pert, smallish
breasts about an “A” cup with a tight, cute and compact butt, a thin waist,
small hips and slender longish looking legs for her height. She wore white,
strapped sandaled pumps that showed small slender feet with tiny stubby toes painted
a deep red to match her fingernails and lipstick.
She has smallish, shell-like ears similar
to Monaavi’s with large expressive black almond-shaped eyes, a small mouth and
normal sized lips. Her warm and inviting smile showed her small pearly white teeth
and lit up her face.
Miko Ozawa was indeed a very pretty,
petite, exotic bombshell that got my
motor running!
“Well hi there!” I greeted. “Glad you could
make it.”
‘Thank you for inviting me,” she replied
respectfully.
“Let’s go inside and meet the gang,” I
invited as I motioned to the door.
“Thank you,” she replied and started for
the door.
She stopped at the back door and I reached
around her, opened the door and with a wave of my hand invited her inside. Miko
stepped into the breakfast area to see what probably looked like a throng of
people. She stopped dead in her tracks at seeing so many people and as I closed
the door behind me, everyone greeted her with “Konnichiwa!”
Miko blushed a nice shade of rosy pink, put
her hands together between her legs, bowed gracefully and returned the greeting
with “Domo arigato, konnichiwa.”
Priya and Monaavi moved to her, embraced
her and led her to sit at the table. Miko was still a little overwhelmed by the
crowd and was in a state of continual blush as the introductions were made with
a slight head bow after each introduction. When all the introductions were
finished Priya giggled, “A big family, huh?”
Miko nodded and replied shyly, “Yes, very
big indeed.”
Mom tried to relieve Miko’s embarrassment
saying, “Miko, why so shy? You were so much in control at the hospital.”
Miko blushed again and replied, “Because a
baby’s life and its mother’s are at stake. Every time a mother delivers a
child, I’m proud to have done my part to make that process a happy one.
People’s lives depend on me to be the best nurse I can be and make their
experience as pleasant as it can be under the circumstances. Here, I’m just a
woman meeting new people. I’ve always been very shy and I don’t socialize much.
You must forgive me for being so awkward.”
Priya reassured her by taking her hand and
saying, “You can be yourself here, don’t worry.”
Miko’s eyes started to well up and Mom
tried to soothe her with, “Miko, please don’t cry, everyone here has waited
with anticipation of meeting you for several days. What’s wrong, Sweetie?”
Bowing her head as I handed her a napkin
she replied, “I just feel embarrassed because everyone probably knows why I’m
here. This is a very personal thing to me and it frightens me that everyone
knows my personal history and secret feelings. I also don’t want to disappoint
anyone.”
“Miko, look at me,” Mom said firmly.
Surprised by Mom’s forceful tone, she
looked up wide-eyed with full attention on Mom. Mom said openly, “Yes, it’s
true, everyone knows. Let’s get this out of the way so we can have a pleasant
friendly stay. When you’re in the hospital working, and you’re not sure of the
medical facts, it’s frightening, yes?”
Miko nodded.
Mom continued, “But when you have the facts
and know where you stand, it makes things a whole lot easier, right?”
“Yes, Ma’am,” Miko replied with a nod.
“Alright then,” Mom said. “Here’s where you
stand. Priya’s parents, Adib and Salima, along with Sean’s parents, John and I,
have reservations about what’s happening. Not with you personally, but the
situation. But we trust our children’s judgment and we have not or will not
prejudge you. We will keep an open mind, trusting that you are a person suited
to fit in their family. We as parents have no say as to whether or not they
accept you: that’s purely up to them.”
Taking a sip of water Mom continued, “What
I will say is that you will be
treated with the utmost respect and shown every courtesy and we’ll try to
understand you, your feelings, your culture, your religious beliefs and, try to
make your stay with us a fruitful one. Everyone sitting here knows how hard
this must be for you and we admire your courage for following your heart. The
people within the marriage you seek to become a part of have determined that
they want to verify their feelings and that if you might become a part of this
family are true. I can’t be any plainer than that. Just be yourself, trust your
instincts and communicate your feelings to those that count. If this is meant
to happen, it will; if it doesn’t, then it’s for the best. Either way, you’ll
always be welcome in our home with open arms. Now… did I scare you to death or
help alleviate your fears?”
“Domo,” Miko answered with a slight head
bow, “I appreciate and thank you for your candor. I do feel less frightened
knowing from what footing I begin my journey.”
“Well,” Dad injected, “knowing the little
snot here (points to Leeya), your journey will be an interesting one!”
Everyone laughed as Leeya feigned a pout.
Mom remarked, “You’ll have to excuse us but
we can sometimes seem rude or irreverent but it’s done in loving jest. Having
said that, (turning to everyone) do we put her on a spit and grill her now or
do you want to slow roast her?”
Miko blushed and asked politely, “May I
speak?”
“You’d better,” Mom jokingly replied.
“I think,” Miko said, “the best thing to do
now is for me to answer any questions you may have about me. That way, we can
devote more time to getting to know each other.”
“Alright folks,” Mom quipped, “she’s chosen
to be grilled now so ask away.”
Adib asked her what she knew about the
Muslim faith and she replied that she believed that both Muslims and Christians
believed in the same God: the God of Abraham; but she knew little of the
workings of Islam, its customs, its rituals or doctrine except that we follow
Mohammad and our God is called Allah.
Adib asked, “If you were to join this
Muslim family, could you adhere to and obey certain observances and customs?”
“Yes I could,” Miko answered, “as long as I
wasn’t asked to violate my faith.”
“Would you consider converting?” Salima
asked.
“No one knows the future,” Miko responded,
“but right now, no, I’m happy with my faith.”
Salima asked her if she’d wear a veil in
public, follow a dress code, eat our diet and pray with us at morning and
evening prayers.
Miko answered with, “I would wear a veil as
required and eating a certain diet isn’t a problem. I will dress as a modest
married woman should and I will pray when my family prays: they to Allah, me to
Jesus Christ.”
“May I ask a question?” she added.
“By all means,” Salima replied.
“How come none of you are wearing veils
now?” Miko asked.
“We are at home and with our families,”
Leeya answered, “It’s kind of like wearing a nightgown at home: families are
allowed this informality but not to the outside world.”
“Oh, I see now,” Miko replied. “Thank you.”
“Jesus!” Dad blurted out. “Why can’t the
Muslims and Jews get along like this?”
“What about your Japanese heritage and
language?” Mom asked. “Would you want your children to learn to speak Japanese,
and what of the other children?”
“Hai,” Miko firmly answered with a nod.
“Yes, I’m proud of my heritage, language and culture. I would be honored to
teach anyone who wanted to learn Japanese history, culture and language and I
would expect my children to learn as well, along with the languages of their
other sibling’s tongue.”
”Well spoken!” Mom commended. “Speaking of Japanese, what does Miko mean?”
“It means beautiful fragrance.”
“That’s pretty,” Salima remarked.
“I don’t know about the rest of you,” Mom
cut in, “but I think we’ve covered the general areas, the rest is for the kids
to share between themselves, agreed?”
“Now,” Mom added as she stood, “who’s ready
for a barbeque!”
When food was mentioned, everyone approved.
Dad and Adib headed to the deck to prepare the grill and Miko asked, “May I
help prepare something?”
“Why yes,” Mom smiled and replied as she
gave her a squeeze around the shoulders, “God help you young girls: a wife that
cooks!”
Mom quickly put Miko to work cutting the
vegetables for the salad. We stood in wide-eyed amazement at our Asian guest.
Holding a meat cleaver by the blade she began cutting everything so fast she
looked like a human food processor!
Priya asked her, “How do you do that?”
Without breaking her rhythm, Miko turned to
her and said, “Do what?”
“That!” (Pointing the chopping blade) Priya
asked in amazement.
“Oh,” Miko replied, “Momma taught me as a
child.”
The preparations finished, the steaks and
lamb kabobs on the grill, Miko spent time playing “It” with the twins and Tina
in the yard.
It didn’t take long for everyone to see she
was great with kids and they took to her readily with open arms. When dinner
was served, my ornery girls seated Miko next to me. Miko seemed flustered and
was blushing if any contact was made between us during dinner.
Seeing Miko’s giddiness Priya joked, “Miko,
he’s harmless, he’s just a toe sucking wimp. If he plays with your knee under
the table, just slap him upside the head.”
Miko choked on her iced tea and had to
cover her face to hide her nasal discharge. Monaavi joined in and quipped, “But
then if you want him to play with
your knee, just scoot a little closer.”
With everyone watching this verbal play,
after wiping her face Miko scooted a fraction closer to me. She immediately
covered her face with embarrassment and blurted out, “I can’t believe I just
did that!”
It was good for a laugh as I exaggeratedly
fondled her knee (a very nice small one at that!). Mom smiled wryly and
quipped, “A Freudian slip I presume.”
“Naw,” Monaavi chimed in, “I teach science:
it was definitely a chemical reaction.”
Miko blushed a bright pink and said, “God!
I’m so embarrassed!”
“Don’t be,” Leeya added, “it’s all about
them there tingles, right?”
“Tingles?” Miko asked.
“Yeah,” Leeya replied, “I’ll tell ya
later.”
“There she goes, Miko,” Priya joked wagging
her head, “she’s the resident sex Ed teacher here.”
Miko’s mouth dropped, her eyes bugged out
looking at Leeya as Leeya giggled. Miko suddenly realized what tingles Leeya
was talking about and gasped, “Oh-my-Gosh!”
Mom chuckled and said, “Sorry Miko but one
of the disadvantages to having so many sister wives is that there’s nothing
that’s out of bounds, better get used to it because they can get mighty feisty
sometimes.”
Priya looked at Leeya and scowled,
“Harlot.”
“Dirty wench,” Leeya exchanged.
“Do you all
have nicknames?” Miko asked.
“Uh huh, Priya’s is the nastiest,” Leeya
noted.
“But I got the most,” she added proudly.
“I’m afraid to ask,” Miko replied.
“Well,” Monaavi explained, “I’m the long nipple
screamer, also currently the cow. Priya is the bald pussy nasty girl and dirty
wench while Leeya has a few: naughty harlot, fuzzy little beaver, little minx,
dirty little girl, horny snot - whatever comes to mind and Sean is the dirty
‘ole letch. If you marry the letch, give us a week, we’ll give you a good one.”
“Gosh,” Miko said, “I wonder what nickname
you’d pick for me?”
“Slut’s still open,” Monaavi quipped.
Standing her ground Miko replied, “That’s a
tough name to live up to.”
“Don’t worry,” Priya added, “the letch will
teach you.”
Biting her bottom lip in mock anger, Miko
stuck me in the arm with her fork:
Ouch!
Miko looked at Leeya wide eyed and asked,
“Are you that active?”
“Uh huh,” Leeya admitted slowly as she
nodded yes.
Priya explained to Miko, “Look, Sweetie, we
have no jealousy or secrets from each other. It takes an open mind and some
humor to watch your husband close the bedroom door with someone other than you.
We share each other’s experiences and there’s no shame with any of us. This
lifestyle has its advantages and disadvantages. You gain a sisterhood but in
doing so you give up privacy. We have no secrets between us and everything is
open: that’s why we aren’t jealous of each other, got it?”
“Wait ‘til she has her first family night!”
Leeya teased.
“W-w-what’s a family night?” Miko asked
surprised.
“That’s when we have a big org-ee,” Leeya
teased some more.
“That’s orgy, Leeya with a soft “G” not a
hard one,” Monaavi corrected.
“Do you really
have orgies?” Miko asked shocked.
“Naw,” Priya ribbed, “she’s just pullin’
your short hairs.”
“My God!” Miko blushingly exclaimed. “You
guys are so open!”
“Alright kids,” Mom cut in, “Play nice.
Miko, these scarlet women are just trying to shock you. Are you ready to leave
yet?”
“I’ve never been to an org-ee before,” Miko
rebutted with a blushing giggle.
“Lord help us!” Mom pined to the heavens,
“she’ll fit right in.”
“Being very serious, Miko,” Priya
explained, “sex is a very big part of our relationship: just like in any
marriage but because there’s more than one wife, there’s just a lot more of it.
Our love is so deep for each other it makes the sex fantastic. Here at home, we
feel no shame in talking about it between ourselves: why should we? Sex is an
expression of love and we don’t hide our feelings and we never will. To be
frank, if you join us, there will be even more sex and with it comes more to
talk about (giggle). If this is going to be a problem for you, speak up because
it would be tragic to admit it later on.”
“With those I trust with my life,” Miko
answered, “I could share anything.”
“Enough said,” I put in, finishing the
discussion.
We’d talked for what seemed like an hour
but was actually three. It was now five and everyone was stuffed and the
everyday tasks of life interrupted us. Malina woke crying to be fed, all the
kids had to be bathed and readied for bed and we still had the cleanup to do.
Miko offered to bathe the twins and wash
their hair while Guernsey cow, chocolate cow and baby cow went for the group
baby feeding. I helped my parents clean up the deck and dishes. Miko came down
and looked sexy with the ends of her hair wet and her top was a little wet
also.
Once the necessities were completed, everyone
migrated to the family room. It was a nice cool, clear spring evening so my
wives and I along with Miko decided to sit out on the deck and talk. We made
another pitcher of iced tea and headed outside.
Once seated, Miko filled us in a little of
her history. She went to high school in San Mateo, California, an upscale
suburb of San Francisco. She obtained her nursing degree, specializing in
neonatal and pediatric nursing from Children’s Hospital Medical School in San
Francisco.
She began her career working in pediatric
emergency at Children’s Hospital because at the time, there weren’t any slots
open in the OB/GYN or the NICU. That’s where she met the intern she became
involved with.
Monaavi asked her how she came to Maryland
and she replied that she had another Japanese nursing friend who worked at
GBMC. She came back here to visit after her breakup for a couple of weeks and
took a tour of the hospital. She liked the environment and they had an opening
in Labor and Delivery so she applied. She’s been here ever since.
Miko told us she occasionally works in the
Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) when they are short staffed such as
holidays or vacations but works primarily in L & D. She told Monaavi that
her NICU experience has honed her skills so that she’s able to accurately spot
problems quickly like she had recognized with Cinny having the cord wrapped
around her neck.
Leeya asked her if she’d seen a baby die and
Miko teared up and nodded silently then said, “It’s a bitterly tragic and sad
thing to experience. The first time it happened to me, it shook me so bad that
I was off for a week, had some counseling and wondered if I could continue to
work. The saddest thing is when a fetus is alive and well right up to delivery
and complications arise and for some reason, the child either dies at
childbirth or shortly thereafter. When this happens, we feel as hopeless as the
grieving parents because even if there was nothing we could do, we feel we
failed somehow and grieve inside over the loss also.”
“What don’t
you like about your job?” Priya asked.
“The shift work,” Miko answered. “Once in a
while, I have to work all three shifts in a week but usually, either evening
shift or graveyard. I chose these shifts because I don’t really have a personal
life and it gives the married girls a chance to be home with their families. If
I were to get married, I’d try to work days as much as possible but there’d
still be some shift work.”
“Miko?” Leeya said softly, “I need to ask
you a question in front of everyone here and it’s very important to me.”
Miko looked down, smiled softly and looking
back up at Leeya replied, “I know what you want to ask but ask your question
and I will answer.”
“When I married Sean six years ago,” Leeya
began, “I’ve dreamt of having a baby. It’s more than the little girl dream that
all girls have because I’m really married and love Sean with every breath I
take. Even though I can get pregnant now, I must wait until I finish school.
Monaavi and now Priya have had a child with Sean, and Sean and my sisters have
promised that my time will come next. If you join us, you can have a child now,
but would you wait and let me, as second wife be next? I know that would mean
that you would probably be past thirty, but this is important to me: could you
wait until I’m pregnant to become pregnant too?”
“I’ve been asked this question by Sean,”
Miko answered, “and being the fourth wife, and deferring to your status, I
would honor the promises made to you and wait my turn. My hope has only been
for one child, but if I were privileged to have more, it would be a blessing I
never expected to receive. I will honor you and defer to you as my position
calls for me to do and wait with anticipation for my time to come.”
“This is all new and strange for me,” Miko
told us, “because you have a protocol that I’d need to learn. I never expected
that I would ever be in a situation where I would share a spouse if I married
but seeing the possibilities before me, and what I feel in my heart, I would
gain more than I would give up. I’ll be perfectly honest because you have given
me the chance to show I can be a part of all of you. You have made me feel that
I’m worthy to be loved and deserve to be loved. If I can feel as loved as the
three of you, my life would be filled to overflowing. I am humbled by your
faith and trust in me. I will honor your faith and customs as I hope you’ll
honor mine and I’ll work as diligently to contribute to this family as I do to
help a child take its first breath.”
“That’s very touching, Miko,” Priya said.
“If we didn’t believe that from the very beginning, you wouldn’t be here. By
considering a new sister, our whole dynamic would be changed forever. Although
this may sound prejudicial, one of the main reasons we feel you can add to our
family is the fact that you’re Asian. Although many don’t believe Indians are
Asians, we are. Our concept and approach to being women is different: many of
us are more tolerant and less self-centered. This may be due to a difference in
cultures where here in America all too many people: men and women are more concentrated on the “me” syndrome. We’re raised
to be a supportive part of something bigger than ourselves: family, society and
work more in that supportive role.”
Monaavi added, “I’ve learned since joining
this family that we strive harder to be selfless in our decisions such as with
our children. It makes no difference who the birth mother is; they are all our children as if we had borne them
ourselves: no one is given less love or importance. Although there’s a
hierarchy, all of us wives are equal with the same rights to have our needs
met. No one’s needs take precedence over the other. How often do you see an
eleven year-old with the same rights as a twenty-nine year old? Priya sees to
that.”
“It seems,” Miko noted, “that little Leeya
carries a lot of weight.”
“Don’t let her size and age fool you,”
Priya revealed. “Mentally, emotionally and sexually, she’s a very smart woman.”
Looking at my watch I said, “It’s getting
late, we should say evening prayers.”
We cleaned up the glasses and such, went
inside and upstairs to pray. When we entered the bedroom and Miko saw the giant
bed, she blushed with hand-covered mouth. Seeing this, Priya quipped, “That’s
where the org-ees take place. If you join us, that big bed will get a little
more crowded.”
Miko just blushed and giggled.
Miko watched intently as we laid out our
prayer rugs and took our places. She knelt next to Leeya and started to pray
with folded hands and head bowed as we began. As we bowed and prayed, Miko
remained kneeling erect with eyes closed and hands folded praying silently.
When we’d finished and readied for bed,
Leeya took Miko downstairs with her. Monaavi went to Priya’s room with Malina
and Priya and I remained in my room.
After undressing and getting into bed,
Priya and I discussed the day’s events. I had some concerns about the way
Miko’s first day went and said to Priya, “We need to discuss something.”