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Subject: {ASS} {RP} Entry for March 14, 2008 -
Benefits of Family nudism, open lifestyles
{Julie_Love} {M+ F+ m f g+ b+ inc ped bi cons}
2009/09/23
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The material herein is fictional and is intended as
ADULT entertainment. It contains material of an
adult, explicit, SEXUAL nature. It contains themes of
incest and underage sexual activities. If you are
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(The original source for this story was from the
original Yahoo Blog written by Julie. It has been
updated with comments throughout to provide the
reader with added information which was not allowed
in the Yahoo environment. Please enjoy the story.)
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As parents we have a golden opportunity to provide a
healthy environment for nakedness in our own home. We
encourage family nudity and the closeness that brings
to each person with other family members. Young
children do not have any sense of modesty, and really
don't care who sees them naked. This is the time when
the parent can mold their conscience without making
them self-conscious of nakedness.
We start family nudity with our children from
birth. After a diaper change we let our young ones
lie on a cover on the floor fully naked and enjoying
the freedom. We have a sun room where we usually are
in during the day. The warm tile floor and sunbeams
are wonderful on your body. Our kids love to play in
the room without any clothes on. One benefit of the
tile floor is when they get to potty training. You'd
be surprised how quickly potty training happens when
your toddler/preschooler is allowed to go bare at
home. Of course we have some "accidents" but they
actually are infrequent and the tile floor makes for
quick cleaning too! As a result being naked with each
other is not viewed as being abnormal.
Going nude during the summer is a lot more
comfortable and natural for us all. Our children
immediately strip off their clothes as the get inside
the house. (Leaving me to pick them up sometimes, but
that's ok.) During the winter months we keep the main
living area warm & comfortable during cold weather.
Our sun room is very popular at this time of the year
during the day.
One benefit of our family nudism is that we're also
teaching our kids that we have to be physically clean.
They shower after coming home from school, they have
towels that they use on chairs and couches to sit on.
As a result I think we have fewer colds in our family.
That's a natural result of our children's efforts at
being clean.
In our family we also have a focal point for family
nudity that enables the whole family to participate
together. We have an outdoor hot tub and a large
shower room which is large enough for 6 adults. Our
little ones see this as a heated kiddie swimming pool
they can use water toys in too. Our huge shower is
lots of fun and having showers together leads to many
enjoyable moments especially if the guys are helping.
We also allow our children - from birth - to see us
in ordinary nude situations (e.g.- dressing, bathing
or showering, using the toilet) or any activity where
nudity is a natural part of the activity. We
definitely are teaching them when nudism is acceptable
and when it isn't. They know that others don't
appreciate being nude like we do.
We believe that by being comfortable with our own
bodies we will naturally convey the message to our
children that nudity really is okay and not something
to fear. Very quickly they are so used to it and
begin to explore their own feelings about being nude
themselves.
We do teach then that there are times in life when
clothes must be worn for protection, for comfort, and
to adhere to what is expected outside of our home. We
have been able to show our children that we have to
respect other peoples standards. They all know that
other people are not accustomed to nudity, and it's
kind to respect their wishes. This may mean keeping
the curtains drawn, or willingly closing the bathroom
door when guests are present, for example -- a
practice that encourages courtesy.
As the kids grow older they begin to explore their
world around them. Their natural curiosity is
amazing. With my last pregnancy my son was always
asking a lot of questions about what he saw happening.
He was very curious about my tummy changes, the
changes in my breasts and many other parts of my body.
I'd explain to him in simple words what was happening
and give him the opportunity to ask more questions or
to even hands-on explore what the changes were like
from his point of view. Seeing him listen to my tummy
for the heartbeat was so endearing. Once he put his
ear to my vulva under the impression that he would
hear it better because the opening lead directly into
the baby. He found it wasn't anywhere near as clear
as listening to my tummy.
Robbie has more of a sense of human reproduction
then other children his age. He is not embarrassed
when discussing human anatomy. He'll be very
comfortable as he grows to his teen years. I know
from how my oldest girl has been that our natural
sharing of sexuality will keep the communication lines
open during adolescence. Jen was always very open to
asking me questions about all topics. Our
relationship has grown as a result. Our natural open
approach to family life has also provided our children
with the opportunity to explore on their own level
various degrees of sexuality and sensuality. They
know the joy in feeling the sun on their bodies, the
touch of a hand as they are massaged, how others react
to their touches, the joy of giving pleasure. We
believe that as parents we need to be responsible for
providing them the opportunities for a healthy
enjoyable and safe environment for them to learn with
us, their siblings and themselves. I believe that
children raised in this environment are more tolerant
of different cultures, attitudes, people and beliefs.
They will be natural citizens of the world.
(,)-(,) >>>>> commentary by Julie on September 23, 2009
Rob is now in Grade 3 and getting into spelling. One
of our family learning exercises is to have the kids
tell us what the various parts of their bodies are and
to point to them. When they get old enough we include
the correct spelling of those words. Rob will point
to a part, say what it is and is slowly starting to be
able to spell the word out for us. I love it when he
is pointing out parts of the body such as penis,
scrotum, testicles, vulva, clitoris, anus, labia,
vagina. Those touches are very special to me. I can
see Kathy watching us as he does his spelling lessons
and I know she'll be doing that earlier than he has.
I think perhaps I have discovered a new way for young
children to learn to spell.
As an aside, we do talk to our children using the
proper terms for the parts of our bodies. I do this
so that they can be confident when they talk with the
doctor about how they are feeling and show and
describe what is hurting them. In time I know they
will know the other normally used words such as cock,
cunt, pussy etc but for now we are actually quite
formal in our discussions.
Back to the original blog entry... (,)-(,)
Julie (horny mom)
www.asstr.org/~julie_love/
dated created 2008/03/14 - last updated 2009/09/23
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