Joe S Theragman Views of issues relating to sex and sexuality. No matter if you agree with me or not, if you want to tell me about it, you can send me an email joe.theragman@yahoo.com or join me on Facebook.

OK, so, I write erotic stories. All of which, to date, involve pretty young girls who really, really, really, want to learn all about sex and the joys it all brings.

But, what are my actual personal views on the subject? Well, the stories follow what I think should be acceptable but are, in truth, rejected by society and are often illegal if they were to actually happen.

Let's begin by defining a few things.

Molestation (always wrong, every time) Molestation is the unwanted touch of another person. Meaning, if someone places their hands, or other body part, on me when I don't want them to , then I have been "molested". It could all be innocent or even an accident and no harm done. Or it could be intentional and that changes everything. If I then tell the person not to do that, and they do it again anyway, it is no longer simple molestation. Almost everyone has been molested, according to this definition, at some time or another. Unless it escalates to the next level, or is severe in nature, it should not usually be a crime! Patting a pretty woman, or girl, on the bottom, without permission, once, is not a life changing event.

That brings us to the thing just beyond molestation that I call assault . Let's just say, that you have, just for the fun of it, caressed a woman, or girls, breast. If she told you not to do that before, and you have done it anyway, you have just committed sexual assault ! If you thought you had permission, or there had never been any indication that she would not want you to do that, then, at worst, it was a molestation. Sexual assault if a serious matter. NOBODY should ever be subjected to that kind of treatment....EVER! Sexual assault, is the unwanted touching, squeezing, caressing, rubbing, licking, kissing....of another person's genitals (and breasts in the case of females) when you know that they have no desire for you to do those things....such an assault is deserving of an ass kicking and jail time....both, not one or the other....both.

The above, are some basic definitions and views I feel should play a major part in how we all conduct our daily lives. But, there's more!

Since all of my stories involve the very eager young girls who WANT a man, or mommy or whomever, to teach them the joy of sexual contact. You will also notice the lack of trickery, coercion, and other such underhanded tactics....for the most part.

I dislike, dishonesty. Just because I see some absolutely stunning girl or woman who I would LOVE to be totally sexual with, does NOT EVER mean I can be less than 100% honest in my dealings with that person. That also prohibits ANY KIND of contrived temptations or 'talking them into it' bullshit.

So, we now move into the realm of 'what if'.

What if, a child does see mommy very happily sucking daddy's cock and going into absolute ecstasy as she receives a mouth filled with hot sticky cum? Well, that all depends on how THE CHILD reacts to what he or she has seen!

If the child simply asks what mommy and daddy were doing, a simple VERBAL answer may be sufficient such as "Oh, honey, we were just making each other feel really good. That's what MARRIED grown-ups do sometimes." end of explanation....maybe.

But what if it's a boy and he asks his daddy? Same thing, maybe but what if he wants to know more like, "Does that feel good?" The answer is obviously, yes. The boy may or may not ever ask the parents about it again but there is a good chance that he is going to try to find a little friend, hopefully a girl, to suck on his little cock to see if HE might like it. At that point, all sorts of things, ranging from not too bad, to downright terrible, could happen.

The little girl he recruited to suckle his tender peter might bite down on it. Automatic trauma! Or, he might have seen daddy thrusting his cock into mommy's mouth a bit and try that on his little girlfriend...another automatic trauma. Or, it all might be that he doesn't feel anything so special about it and simply drops the subject...probably the best outcome when experimenting with little friends.

But, what should a parent do if he or she is pressed about the why, and how, of sexual activity? What if they do catch their little girl or boy 'trying it out' with one or more of their friends? Should they storm on in and 'put a stop to that evil'? Maybe they should quietly back off and just 'monitor' to make sure nobody gets hurt? Or, would it be appropriate for the parent to gently step in and offer to 'help' so that they fully understand what they are doing and how to do it for the most pleasurable experience? This is the option I feel would be best but, laws, and societal norms, do not agree.

Oh those pexky "what if" things! Here is one I actually feel happens quite often and we simply don't hear about it. Say a young couple with a new baby girl, OK maybe a couple of months old, are together, in the bed, with the baby and all are nude. That is actually a pretty normal situation I think. Soooooo, babies do what babies do. One of the things they do is grab things. They don't differentiate between other folks body parts or inanimate object very well either. So, bay is moving around and exploring, under the watchful eye of both parents, and she manages to latch onto Daddy's cock....Another thing about babies, is that they don't yet understand much about being gentle in how they handle things and Daddy's cock could be in real danger of damage...as for any adverse effects on Baby??? That is 100% dependent on how Mommy and Daddy react!

My personal opinion on what to do in the above 'what if' is that IF Daddy isn't getting hurt by baby's grip, then let baby enjoy it....if Daddy IS getting some pain from Baby's grip, then very gently loosen said grip but do not admonish the baby for taking hold in the first place. Yeah, yeah, I know, everything a baby gets into her little hand finds it's way to her mouth....so what? Until her teeth start to come in, there's is little danger to Daddy's cock and just lettling her use Daddy's cock as a pacifier ain't gonna hurt her unless Daddy gorgets to pull away before he has that massive orgasm....don't want to choke the baby ya know.

OMG! OMG! Am I saying that parents should intentionally try to get their baby girl to suckle Daddy? NO I AM NOT. What I'm saying is exactly, and limited to, what I have written in the paragraphs above...DO NOT add words to what I say here...I'm a kinda litteral type of guy!

Oops! I gotta get some actual work done...I'll continue this at a later date!