Date: Wed, 23 Jul 2008 08:49:14 -0700 (PDT) From: Dj Grammar <email@example.com> Subject: marco's Day 1 (installment 1 of 30) marco has 30 important lessons to learn on his journey. Today is the first lesson. There will be much suffering, delight, ecstasy, tears, love, and hate. He will emerge much stronger, with a life-long sense of respect for me, his teacher. I love marco with all my heart; for this reason, I would never hurt him. However, there will be moments when he feels as if I am hurting him. These moments we will talk through, as consenting adults do in any mature relationship. Day 1 is merely an opportunity to reacquaint ourselves. We discuss soccer, his family, his girlfriend. I explain that this process is didactic, designed to turn him into a sophisticated intellectual and emotional organism. Rule #1: marco's uniform for his journey is Levi's clothing. Everything must be Levi's; that is the first rule. I know that he has Levi's underwear, for I have seen him wear these. But I expect Levi's shoes, 501 jeans, a belt, socks, T-shirts, everything. When he has a suitable uniform for play/learning, the lessons will begin--not a moment before. If he shows up out of uniform, he will be disciplined appropriately. Rule #2: I'm in charge. While marco can ask questions about what I tell him to do when given permission, the relationship must be founded upon trust. Rule #3: There will be significant physical erotic play. We will be having sex, kissing, fucking, etc. marco will be restrained quite a bit of the time and playfully tickle tortured as a way to expand his mental limits. marco must be ok with this too. Rule #4: Everything happens at my place. Rule #5: marco will be positively rewarded for successful learning outcomes. Punishments will vary on the nature of the offense. Punishments that do not work effectively lead to more intense punishments. Rule #6: We can discuss these rules at any time and decide that one or more is no longer applicable; we can also create new rules. Rule #7: The relationship is private; I don't talk about marco with anyone and he does not talk about me to anyone. That's enough for today.